Unpredictable heart...

Girl heart is unpredictable,
It's like in the ocean searching for a needle

She is so near and yet so far,
It's tougher than getting the star

Sometimes happy sometimes sad,
Sometimes she look as if she is glad

I lost my sense of direction
In searching for the needle in the Pacific Ocean
Please give me some indication....

Skill in dealing with people without offending them...

You cannot hope to achieve peace by correcting each and every person in this world. In the same time, you cannot remove the world of stones and thorns so that the pathway maybe smooth. To feel comfortable walking on uneven ground, we should try wearing a pairs of shoes instead. Likewise, we should learn to guard our senses to have peace of mind since we cannot succeed in removing disturbing object from the world.

There are many ways to correct a person if he/she is wrong. By criticising, blaming, and shouting at him/her publicly, you will not be able to correct him/her but you only make him/her more adamant in his/her views.

Speak to him/her kindly in pointing his/her mistakes, he/she is more likely is listen to you, and some day he/she will thank you for your guidance or kindness.

Whenever you express your views regarding certain matters, avoid harsh words spoken with anger so as not to hurt the feeling of others. Always express your views gently or politely. On the other hand, you should not lose your temper or show your sulky face when your faults are pointed out. You may think that by losing your temper, showing an ugly face, an shouting at others, you can intimidate others in order that they may overlook your shortcomings. This is the wrong attitude to adopt.Rudeness, yelling, anger and swearing are a weak man's imitation of strength.

Gaining control over moods...

Everyone is influenced by moods to some extent. We should try to understand our moods better so as to gain control over them and to avoid doing things we might regret later. When under emotional stress, we should defer making important decisions. When we are angry or in a bad mood, we cannot see or think clearly to come to good, well-considered decisions. At the other extreme, when we are elated and flushed with happiness, we tend to be more accommodating and less objective in our thinking. Any decisions reached during such periods are likely to be biased. Take some moments to allow the mind to calm down. Analyse the problems. Think them over. Decisions or judgements made with a calm mind uninfluenced by moods will be less biased and better.

Is life full of worry?

Life is full of fear and worry,
It does not exist for you and me originally,
All these are our own doing actually.

As a matter of fact,
It is the word "self" to be exact,
That really make us sad,
Because we always feel that we are not perfect.

Because of that we always think of this and that such as,
I am not as beautiful as you are,
I am not as clever as you are,
I am not as lucky as you are,
I am not as rich as you are.

Because of that We feel that,
"People look down on me",
"People don't want to help me",
"People don't like me".

The list goes on endlessly,
All these make us worry,
Which are imaginary,
Please wake up and face the reality,
And get rid of all these worries,
Otherwise I feel sorry!!!

Nothing cannot be solved...

"A difficult situation can be handled in two ways. We can either do something to change it or to face it. If we can do something, then why worry and get upset over it- just change it. If there is nothing we can do then why worry and get upset over it? Things will not get any better with anger and worry."

Sense Of Belonging....

I saw the bee was flying,
It left the flower without telling,
The reasons for leaving,
And made the flower crying.

It seemed that in the beginning,
The bee was enjoying,
When the flower was blooming.

As the sun keep on rising,
There were many bees coming,
They were sucking and competing,
To have the best feeling.

When the evening was approaching,
One by one started leaving,
Because there was no Sense Of Belonging,
That is why they are not staying,
Leaving the flower wondering,
Why the bees are leaving?

Could it be that it is its instinct,
Just like we human being,
Don't like to share his or her darling,
With other human being.

Trust

"Trust is a two ways traffic. You get what you give. Sometimes people don't trust you because of the actions of others. Some people have been so badly hurt in the past that they have great difficulty trusting others. Trust is an essential elements of all successful relationships. Trust should never be taken for granted even though it is a gift."

Saturday life...

Sunny Saturday....I woke up around 10.30am....then I did my daily routine as usual, shower etc...after that, I went to have my breakfast...I did my revision for PDSM after having my breakfast because I have to resit for the module soon...I did my revision at least one hours plus then i went online for a while...After that, i go to have my lunch...After having lunch, my parent decided to go to 1U again to buy something...So i followed them there ...Today is damn crowded at 1U...so many people shopping there...I just hang around there since they went to buy their stuff...I went to Padini Concept Store have a look...I saw many items with good discount at the store...So I decided to buy some of the clothes for college wear...I bought one shirt around RM50+ and a long pant that cost RM69...After that I proceed to the cosmetic shop at jusco called Laneige...On the way to the cosmetic shop, i saw Yeung Yi, the TVB actress at the H20 cosmetic shop...I tried to snap some photos of her but unfortunately I only managed to take one because it was damn crowded...Many people tried to do what I did...At the Laneige comestic shop, I bought a toner and emulsion...the toner cost around RM150 and the emulsion cost around RM160...We went back home around 7.20pm...So basically, this was how I spend today...

Injured angel...

You have given him all of your heart,
He has torn it apart,
And he has taken all that you had,
If you want to try to love again,
I will try to love again.

I know the first cut is the deepest,
But when it comes to being lucky, he is cursed,
When it comes to loving you, he is worst,

I want you by my side,
Just to help you dry the tears that you've cried,
And I'm sure going to give you a try,
If you want to try to love again,
I will try to love again,
But I know the first cut is the deepest

this semester is very stressful....

The third semester started two weeks ago....
I feel so stressful, and tired...
A lot of group work in every subject of this semester ....
Besides that, we have a lot of assignments to do and need to hang in every week...
although we have only 3 days class per week, feel stressful also because of all these assignments....
Many research need to do and have to burn midnight oil for the group work sometimes...
Haiz...the semester is quite tough...
Really need to struggle for it!!!

a flower and bees

I see a unique flower in a garden recently,
Although it has yet to bloom fully,
It catches the eye of so many.

Its beauty is undeniable,
Just by looking at the number,
Of bees, butterflies and others,
Attracted by this beautiful flower.

Why it attracts so many bees?
Is it because of its natural beauty?
Or because of its sweet honey?
It must be both of these to me.

I wonder, is there anything wrong?
Why the bees do not stay for long?
Is it because of its thorn?
Or because the bees are bored?
This mystery is yet to be solved.